Why do we love?

Is Relationships All About Feelings?

Recently I had a friend who's "ex-bf" left her all of a sudden and ended a 5yr relationship just because he needs to "take-a-break" and be left alone for awhile after a mini-quarrel-became-ok-but-turn-out-to-be-a-silent-killer. This has left her distraut and unable to work and study.. It was really a shock to us friends around her who use to see them as a perfect couple and really strong and sweet in the relationship. The guessing game kicked in and some guess there's someone else, he really need a break, he's stress-upped, he's blar blar blar..

But who cares? When you're in a relationship and made the decision to be with someone, you jolly-well stick with that person and share whatever shit you have with him/her! Its just saddening to always hear from others that the feeling's gone or that I need a break...What bull shit man..Its one's responsibility to be faithful to the relationship and stay together with the one you love..

The feeling or love may not always be there, sometimes it may be strong, sometimes it may be bad, sometimes there may be quarrels, sometimes there may be laughter, sometimes it may be stagnant..No one confirmed that LOVE WILL BE FOREVER?! But a couple will just have to stick together since they want to be together..

Only when both have tried and compromise and understand and accept each other, then should they part they're ways..Its really important to be responsible to in a relationship and stay together no matter wat happens..That's a true one that will really sustain...

But anyway this is just my personal view..some may disagree, but this is my blog...so...Anyway, just glad that when all fails, God gave us friends to be around us for comfort, to cheer us up and just to lend a listening ear..At least there're always something else we can live for...

Derek